Responsiveness to Your Child’s Experience
HeartLed Implementations To Enable Resiliency & Natural Force Order Expansion In Parenting
This Post is Inspired by Events In Mine Own Evolutionary Life and That of the Beautiful Sweet Ginger-Gened Offspring I Have Had the Privilege of Having Brought Into this World.
We as humans are quite adept at trauma.
Most of today’s humans are grown adults in ill repaired traumatic biologies and in the aftermath of the highly unnatural and unusual imposition of the globe focusing on their own deaths and an antagonism to naturalness of LIFE for the last 2 years, the polarity of consciousness to that of a thrive has been fielded.
Children are inherently very resilient as they are in their most pivotal developmental stages from their birth to the first 10 years of their life as well as highly neuroplastic and in a space of extreme growth and evolution having just arrived in the world.
Adults gain resiliency through the reparations or encumbrance they field in their own lives, or they succumb to their fall outs and the effects are demonstrable by way of exposition of their shadow selves
In truth, we are all children on one level. We have our inner childs within and we are all children of this magnificent and powerful Earth.
We all have our life experience that carries us through this world and we are not once young and then grow old, we are who we are through and through.
Our experiences and how we are nurtured through them, as well as how we field them create the tapestry of the skin of which we stand in, in the here and now.
Our experiences and our abilities to command our own knowledge and aptitude of resilience are determined by the kind of responsiveness and care we are given after we have experienced a traumatic event.
In most cases, the reparations and responses to human trauma only exacerbate the unnaturalness that is trauma to a human system.
Many people adhere to a stress vibe of accomplishment and achievement in the vain of “doing”.
Very few models of human governance focus on the “being” that is experiencing and achieving all this “doing”
This Post Is Inspired By & Dedicated My Beautifully Wise & Renewably Resilient Little Magic Marvel Max P. Vanderleeden.
He is a Light & Golden Heart in this world and has many gifts to adorn us with that I am excited to see come to fruition as he furthers his own self actualization.
Max was imposed with the witness of a good deal of unnatural verbal, emotional and psychological domestic abuse trauma when his closest and best companion in the world, me, was taken out of my right mind for over a 5 year period.
I was propelled into the desolation of an uncovering of severe violent dis associative domestic abuse encumbrances to varying degrees in that half decade, that were bred within me over a 16-year period compelled by a man who was deemed a respectable and well-to-do member of society.
A racially segregated trauma survivor himself, my father, the now deceased Roland Spencer Arnold, compelled an inordinate amount of abhorrent, mutilation and violent trauma abuse upon his offspring while maintaining the cover of being a useful and well respected medical physician in society.
May he Rest In Peace.
His abuse encumbrances took my brother just three months before him and has now yielded the demise of my highly intelligent and kind second eldest sister.
Lives have been cut short and lost as a result of his ill conditioning of severe and unnatural normalized racial abuse in Capetown South Africa he endured in the Fifties and Sixties.
My mind and heart have taken a good deal of kicks in regards to being able to understand and adhere to a natural vibe in my life creativity.
Thanks to the good work of Michael D’Alton and Vadim Zeland, I am most grateful to be in a state of condition of coherence and elevation in which I am able to fully understand and reflect on such an unusual and toxic life experience.
His was too, and we teach and compel the energy of what we know in our unconsciousness until we CHOOSE to take full OWNERSHIP to TRANSMUTE it . Very few people are taught their choices of FREE WILL and have not the confidence to make such choices, so the breeding of such unnaturalness is then allowed to perpetuate.
One “tame” example of his breeding of conditioned unnaturalness, was an event I learned of from him as a still developing young man. He went to the dentist when he was a teenager and because he was a coloured man, the white dentist, removed all of his teeth and claimed he would be better off so as to not have to contend with a coloured mans jaw.
He told me this story as if it was the most natural thing, even amused and was grateful to a friend he made in medical school, an opportunity he created for himself with his own magnificent MIND, who outfitted him with a new set of artificial teeth.
I was sixteen when I saw him remove his upper and lower teeth when he descended upon my consciousness these gruesome facts as if it was the most normal experience a teenager could engage at the dentist.
To rob a human of their right to smile, is a biological deficit that has a severe impact on the psychology of the human brain as well as an evolutionary retraction that leaves a lasting deficit to the naturalness of one’s own right to happiness and peace within.
After that knowledge, and several experiences in England as a waitress where older generations labeled me as a “nigger’s daughter” I was always quite uneasy in a dentists chair.
The Normalization of Trauma Abuse is Humanity’s Most Depleting Energy and Takes a Dark Form when Allowed to Propel with Momentum and Continuance Over Time.
Of this, I Have Unequivocal Experiential Knowledge that I Know as TRUTH.
Even if you yourself have had the privilege of a peaceful Patriarch and connected Matriarch and do not resonate with severe abuse trauma, you need only look at the abhorrent focus of the mainstream media to see that humans are being traumatized in many facets of their natural lives, leaving a highly unnatural stain on the entirety of the human race.
We Are All One in Our Humanity and We Are Co Resonant Creatures.
A most recent example of an untethered man generating abuse trauma is the Russian (leader?) Putin is generating an energy of a deeply wounded inner child untethereing his own trauma and bleeding it on the people of Ukraine, and by extension, the rest of the globe.
There are so many other examples I could site presently, but my focus is geared towards health, well-being, naturalness and life propulsion that I care not to dwell my focus on that which has been created to our humanity’s deficit as do the inauthentic politicians and mass media CHOOSE to immerse their focus in the darkness and lower consciousness propulsion of human life.
I Prefer Light.
I Prefer Expansion.
I Prefer Creativity and I Prefer The NATURAL ORDER.
I am also Highly Aware of the Principle of Where You Put Your Attention is What You Create In Your World.
These CHOICES of AWARENESS and KNOWLEDGE that are available to 95percent of EVERY HUMAN BEING ON THE PLANET are the DELINEATED and DISCERNING CHOICES I make daily, in EACH MOMENT, to delineate my state of condition and my Ultimate Peace of Mind.
No matter whether you are for or against war, your focus is on war, and that is not a vibe that thrives.
The natural universal governing laws will always show you WHAT YOU FOCUS ON EXPANDS.
Where I choose to put my focus is where I am expanding. It is a very simple principle to adhere to in a very complex world.
Thus, I choose REPARATION, RESILIENCY, EDUCATION and A ROOTING IN THE ENERGY OF LOVE.
I do not look at the mainstream media because you will see the MO of all stations of media, especially Twitter and American News Stations, like to tell a fact about something bad and then begin discussions about the bad fact being discussed with everyone throwing their righteous indignation upon what is right and what is wrong about the bad facts of focused attention.
It is exhausting and at a complete dissonance to the LIMBIC BRAIN proclivities of PEACE and UNCONDITIONAL LOVE propelled but he SPIRIT of LIFEFORCE that compels ALL LIFE ON PLANET EARTH.
In truth, the duality of Life is a very real and Universal aspect of our humanity and to transcend duality in your own aptitude of growth and ownership in the actualization of your own state of condition, is to be in a higher state of your own conscious awareness, yielding out of dependency on the judgement and criticism of others.
Essentially yielding out of DEPENDENCY to determine your own choices of the AUTHENTICITY of your own DIVINE & UNIQUE HUMAN BLUEPRINT.
People saying they are for or against ANYTHING, holds no weight here.
WHAT YOU FOCUS ON EXPANDS.
You focus on war, you expand war. You focus on unity and solutions – guess what expands for you?
This is an ACUMEN OF SELF DIRECTED FOCUS of which most humans focus are ENRAPTURED by their technological devices and are tethered to their social media as if it garners them any kind of real personal value or power.
A screen addicted parent whilst in the company of their young is today’s biggest normalization of neglectful trauma to the magic that children are bred to be.
How do you think it fares for your child’s emotional and psychological development and wellness to have their primary caregiver on a telephone whilst they are discovering the ins and outs of their newly discovered world?
Adhering to a no screen rule can seem ludicrous to the pendulous addiction that grabs peoples biological attention who are tethered to their devices.
Be a rebel, or maybe, just a HUMAN BEING?
Turn that phone on airplane mode and spend some invested time in the development of your aptitude as a connected parent and your distills of evolutionary growth to your child.
Technological addiction in caregivers and using technology as a method of care giving is the pendulous pull of energetic structures that are created in the ignorance of the human conditioning and the exposition of ones own demise to their own mastery of their own focused mind.
Technology breeds its own energy, taking command over the biologies of the humans who initially engaged the technology as if it was their own free will of choice, only to be led and devoured by its addictive energetic pull.
In my experience as an invested and mindful parent in areas of playgrounds and parks, in both Mexico and Canada, I can speak of OVER A DOZEN children I have had to save in terms of their physical and psychological safety due to their parent having their face glued to their phone, rather than mindful attention and investment into their child.
Just yesterday I saw a woman losing her state of condition of peace and projecting anger and frustration on what looked like her three year old daughter because her daughter was about to drop her phone and couldn’t hold it properly.
For my sanctity of peace and autonomy, I CHOOSE to adhere to allowing people to be who they are, but in witness of this ridiculousness, I really sometimes wonder, and with self observational frequency, if people are immersed in a state of severe normalized retardation as a natural axiom to their addiction to their own devices.
This kind of neglect is rampant and normalized yet the natural order, natures technology, did not intend for such imbalances to be bred into the consciousness of human life creativity and expansion.
Yet all is allowed, and us humans are highly creative, whether we are consciously aware of it or not.
If you are wondering why we experience such imbalances in the Earth’s energy presently where it is mid May yet feels like a winter season, you need only look at how humans are governing themselves apart from the naturalness of the world of which they are bred.
Balance is a fundamental underlying structure of ALL LIFE on planet Earth.
It is key.
Turn off your devices when engaging with children.
The value of esteem, growth, connection and sovereignty of dignified energy that you compel in just that ONE ACTION, is incredibly POWERFUL.
Energy does not lie and energy is very real. It is the fundamental essence that creates all matter on Earth.
To be able to be in full COMMAND of your own energy is a life thrive that will prove to serve you and, especially, your children, very well.
You as a human energy system are governed by an infinitive intelligence as well as your own Divine Will in either harmony or disharmony to this energy.
How YOU CHOOSE to direct your energy is a personal matter and autonomous to every individuals level of consciousness and conscious awareness as well as education and aptitude of knowledge and experiential implementation of the knowledge.
Experience is a humans best educative tool. Once a human has an experience, they gain knowledge.
I have had great experiences and I have had a heck of a lot of traumas mixed into those experiences.
Being ill-equipped and ill repaired from an inordinate amount of unnatural toxic stress during my formative years coupled with an investment of esteemed, wealthy and world traveling experiences to counter the abhorrent nature of my father’s unhealed trauma and his lack of ownership and perpetuation of it, has made me an experiential witness to what works and what does not work in terms of fielding out of such an imbalanced encumbrance.
The World of a Child is a Beautiful Lens in Which To Be in View of the World.
To be able to harness your own state of condition to enable and support the upliftment and unconditional support and repair of your children, whether they come from an ancestral lineage of trauma or whether they adhere to your conditioning unbecoming of their own autonomy, a simple and heart led approach to the naturalness of connectivity of dignity, respect, interest, curiosity and particularly ALLOWANCE to them as a GUEST in your world is a child resilience and growth THRIVE.
Here are some simple and basic adherences you can dial in as an adult human to enable your child to harness their most optimal thrive.
They are simple in principle yet take your investment and work to be able to YIELD THEM.
This kind of work will pay you in dividends, even if it does not garner you a monetary “paycheck”
ATTENTION AND DEMONSTRATION WITHOUT CONTROL, JUDGMENT, CRITICISM OR MANIPULATION
It is the vibe of parenting past to impose a good deal of unnatural energy in a child’s experience and then blanket it with a normalization of raising kids effectively.
The natural force order of us humans and our thrive is a dignity of kings and queens.
This dignity comes with just that.
Nowhere in the human repertoire of heart led approaches to human relating will you find a resonance of a good vibe in control, judgement, criticism and/or manipulation.
These proclivities of the human mind’s tendency to thwart 77percent of its attention to NEGATIVE THINKING patterns which derive from an archaic conditioning of survival is a trap many caregivers fall into, unconsciously.
CHECK YOURSELF and your MO with your kids.
The path of the least resistance in any relationship to make it thrive is an honest reflection of what you intend to give in order to receive.
If you need more control over your child’s unruly behaviour, instead of commanding control, give them more control.
If you find that you judge your child’s behaviours as bad, then instead of diving into the vibration of judgment, DEMONSTRATE TO THEM the behaviour you are seeking.
If you criticize your child(ren) in an effort to propel them to what you deem your standards of appropriate human behaviour looks like, then take a different approach and model ENCOURAGEMENT.
Example: “You are doing it all wrong” becomes “Let me demonstrate to you an alternative action to compel a different result.” Remember, what you focus on expands.
Focus on that which you wish them to yield to and not that which you wish them to negate.
Parents unconsciously and consciously try to correct their childrens ill desired behaviours by lumping them in the duality of good and bad when in this world now, who the heck really has a compass on what is good and what is bad when we have all witnessed the fuckery of life in full force that breeds both poles of human engagements and are ALL ALLOWED.
Your child takes on your words to their own state of condition, so if you judge, blame, criticize or punish them, you are essentially depleting their very sense of self-worth and fundamental state of human condition to their optimality. This is a SELF OWNERSHIP vibe in which you have to be astute and creative to delineate them as always lovable, always a good vibe and always accepted.
Most parents do not encompass this within themselves so it is easier (the lazy humans MO) to throw judgment, blame and criticism on a beautiful developing system who has absolutely no resonance to such unnaturalness, until, you the parent are conditioning and demonstrating it to them.
Never make your child’s behaviour about who they are. A fine set of words to COMMUNICATE to your child in what you deem their most antagonist states of behaviours and conditions is “No matter what, I will always love you. These behaviours you are demonstrating are problematic for US, because……”
This establishes their inherent worth at the onset of the corrective words, actions and consequences you are to guide and delineate to them to realign them to a more dignified relational SETPOINT of HUMAN RELATING.
Always Affirm your childs worth and then DEMONSTRATE to them alternative methods of behaviours and aptitudes of being that you wish to have them reflect in your engagement with them.
Personal responsibility for your own energetic implementations you compel towards your children determine a good deal of weight as to how they will develop and move themselves forward in their own experience.
Whatever you are not changing that is not to their optimal thrive, essentially, you are choosing.
Ensure the choice points you are making make YOU FEEL GOOD about your aptitude and deeming within.
Otherwise, you are just circle jerking a low vibrational feel within and imposing that conditioning upon your childs conditioning. Understanding they are learning from you by observational experience of you is your key to leveling up your own game.
If that is the case, then that resonance will be present in the manner in which you dial in your care giving vibe.
A very simple barometer for your own self responsibility in this respect is to ask yourself the question.
If I Were This Child’s Age and I Was In a Space With The Most Important and Influential Person in My Entire Life, What Kind of Words, Actions. Emotional Energy, Activities and Behaviours Would I Want Engaged and Compelled Towards Me?
Then Do That. Dial It In.
INVESTMENT OF TIME, SPACE AND ATTENTION TO YOUR CHILD’S VIBE & INTERESTS
Putting down your phone when you are in the company of your child, and placing it off or in airplane mode may be a radical action in the technological world that has been generated today, but you ALWAYS HAVE FREE WILL OF CHOICE.
The personal choice to be a connected offline human parent or a parent who conditions their child to adhere to the standard that believes technology is of more value than human connection.
In no land will this ever be aligned with the natural force order of life, so to be aware of your own investments in terms of your own addictions of importance to your online “busyness” is a SELF AWARENESS and SELF OWNERSHIP aptitude worth developing.
Us as humans have a biological predisposition to generating hormones and energy within that become addictive and reliant on our technologies.
Taking and AWARE and COMMANDING discernment of SOBER SELF ASSESSMENT to your engagements to your device vs your invested human engagement to your child(ren) have a great impact on their developing senses of connectivity and worth within.
Just because your child is a human intelligence marvel, as most children are naturally bred to be and can immerse themselves in a myriad of activities with their infinite potentialed imaginations, does not warrant you nor give you permission to let them be and occupy your attention on a screen in their company.
Let that really land in your awareness PARENT.
If your demands of work or responsibility do not allow you to spend at least one hour a day with your child uninterrupted without any technology then perhaps you should reconsider your rights to be a responsible parent.
Children are human and they are young only once.
This time is of great value to the dignity of the life they will be able to compel for themselves, and your technology of artificial intelligence can certainly wait and will certainly not be affected nor be put a deficit if it is your choice to ignore it rather than your human child’s own needs.
LISTENING WITH THE INTENT TO DO SO VS BLANKETING WITH YOUR OWN CONDITIONED RESPONSES.
The art of listening is just that.
To be fully present and holding space for another human to be in autonomous expression of themselves with the connected and responsive state of condition to enable them a space of understanding and acceptance to express their views and opinions, thoughts and feelings WITHOUT labeling, judging or guiding the appropriateness of them is a really dignified and high place to enable a child to be.
Many times I have witnessed a parent diffuse the dignity of their own autonomous childs experience by labeling, judging or correcting the natural inquiry a child engages while being expressive to their own human uncovering and perceptions.
To listen and allow a space of peace for your child to say what they want and need to say, to express as they please and to offer them no resistance but instead affirm and validate their expressions is an expansion THIRVE.
Should anything they express be at a dissonance to your own views or appropriateness to your own ideals, the most expanded method to get them to a place of understanding your own views is to get curious and ask questions,
Questions and Inquiry Lead to Discovery and Understanding.
Conditioning a child to think and act in the way that is your way hinders their own autonomy and disables their inherent free will, and ultimate, SPIRIT. Do you really want to take on that kind of energy in your own dial in?
To ask questions after validating their autonomy is a connectivity that expands you both in understanding, dignity, real knowledge and truthful expression.
It is a NATURAL ORDER THRIVE.
TREATING YOUR CHILD AS A GUEST IN YOUR WORLD VS AN ENTITY TO BE MANAGED OR CONTROLLED
Your job as a parent is to raise your child, not to control them or impose your generational beliefs and conditioning upon them.
Confusing the two can cross subtle barriers of dependence and interdependence conditioning.
Stagnating a child in the ideals of the generational beliefs and time that your bred within is to pull them back into history disabling the natural order of evolutionary growth.
One of your most affluent teachers in your life is your child.
Children are energetically more advanced than the adults that guide them and provide for their basic human needs. When you are able to be MATURE and take PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY then you are in a positive and supportive vibration to support your child’s free will of autonomy.
The projections that adults compel in their own lives and relationships by not being truthful I about who they are, what they want and who they are being in the world is a density that children are not equipped, nor responsible to carry.
Allow yourself the luxury of being who you are and adorn this gift of life to the life/lives of which you have created in this world.
A very easy and simple approach to connecting and guiding children is to release your ownership of therm and enable their autonomy by allowing them to be who they are and treating them as guests in your world.
If you run a hospitality business or worked in an arena of customer service, then you would yield a certain aptitude of behaviour towards your patrons to return to you the success of your businesses profits.
Enabling such a principle in your personal relational dynamics with the adults and especially your children is a very dignified and respectful vibration to compel and gain momentum in, in terms of being successfully aligned to naturalness of your life’s creativity.
ALLOWING INTENTIONS OF RESOLTUIONS TO YIELD VS FORCING TO ACHIEVE YOUR OUTCOMES
Any time you are at a dissonance with anyone with whom you are relating, the nucleus of such a dissonance is residing within you.
With the natural force order of EXPRESSION, COMMUNICATION and LOVE, there is no good reason why all dissonances and antagonistic situations cannot be resolved in LISTENING and UNDERSTANDING.
The energetic truth of our experience is that we are co resonant beings.
Most often if a child is combative, disagreeable, acting out and behaving like an animal, it is because they are lacking in some form of nurturing that is imperative to their development.
In today’s weird world of technological addiction and normalization of screen time over connected time, having your priotories and ideals become skewed to naturalness is very common and easily yielded.
Balance is Key.
I used to try and be a completely screen free parent which worked for a time but as my little man continues his autonomous development under the guardianship of his father and myself, I gauge his activities and investments online and offline and ensure that there is a HEALTHY BALANCE.
His father and I have separated, but we both share the ideal that our child’s worth and wealth of development takes priority over our inability to compel a successful intimate dynamic.
The root of this dissolution was rooted in his father’s feminine relational blueprint of connectivity being completely abandoned by his mother and father and left in a room as a young baby for the first six months of his life, not given any sunshine or light and only touched or engaged with for feeding and changing.
Otherwise, a baby left alone, entirely in a dark orphanage.
That is highly unnatural vibration to LIFE and connectivity to LOVE in LIFE.
When his adoptive mother received him, she said his skin was GREY and demonstrated combative behaviours of which she admitted to me, she was ill-equipped, having had a mentally ill mother herself that was imposed with abhorrent normalizations in the Netherlands by Hitler’s impositions during the war.
She witnessed her Jewish friends and neighbors lose the dignity of their lives in such an abhorrent fashion and the impact of that, she noted made her a very cold and mother.
She told me she held the responsibility to keep her brother safe by way of having to collect milk from the neighboring farm when she was seven years old, she would have to bravely walk the road adorned with Natzi’s as she was a little girl and could not be enlisted in Hitler’s regime as her brother would have been had he been the one to go.
That is a gnarly vibe and imposition to adorn a young developing female species with.
She says her saving Grace in that time was that she was not Jewish.
I have come to awareness that this is the fundamental understanding for me to adorn him with forgiveness and acceptance to the low vibrational and non loving actions he felt were a natural vibe in our relational dynamic.
I too, take full responsibility for not being able to be peaceful in terms of my ability to dial in a coherent and responsive engagement to mine own dignity of respect to choose not to tolerate inauthentic relating in our dynamic.
I always had the choice to leave, yet that choice was not known to me until I actualized out of deep dis associative trauma conditioning.
As a result we have both grown, learned, developed and found peace for the sanctity of the health and wealth our shared child.
It took a while and some serious shady moments to arrive here, but alas, renewable energy is available to ANYONE who is willing to stay on the side of compelling LOVE.
I think too, we can all agree that it is a much more of a thrive for our child to not have his mother in a murderous state of condition towards his most influential caregiver. Levity comes with acknowledgment of the darkness of our SOULS being brought to LIGHT.
His father is very strict and likes a good deal of control in his environment for his own safety and my son is subjected and raised to be free to be who he is but under specific standards and adherence, and in ways this really enables him self responsibility and self accountability, however having been in a relationship with his father and myself being a free spirit, similar to my son, I can empathize with my son needing and wanting his own autonomous time to choose as he pleases his engagements when he is in my company.
He enjoys building games, really gnarly violent zombie games and cartoons of which he gets seldom to none in the majority of his time of which where most of his time is spent in his fathers home.
When he is with me, I let him have my phone with his games and let him be as he wishes.
When I provide him feedback about his behaviours and the impact of screen time, he takes responsibility and listens.
He is a real beauty and my life’s GREATEST GIFT
Letting him be who he is, enables a balance for him and I believe as a result it enables him an aptitude of education of what balance is in terms of governing his own life force.
Everyone is different and dials in a different vibe based on their experiences.
To force your child to adhere to your own projected ideals and imposing them with control so that you can feel more in control or more empowered is a false compelling to the naturalness of the law as of physics by which influence our human experience.
To live and let be does not mean to be neglectful in your own ownership and responsibility, in fact it means that you have invested in these principles to a degree of experiential practice of your own self ownership and actualization.
I dated a man once who had such a messed up time with his previous relationship, he projected all the wounds imposed upon him onto me as if the lenses of which he was perceiving me through were the truth of me.
Such ridiculousness always yields disharmony when one individual tries to dependently hold another responsible for their state of condition.
Making Your Children Succumb to Such a Dependent and Low Vibrational Investment of Relating Depletes Their Very LIFEFORCE.
Take a look at how much control you try to manipulate or compel over your child versus how much YOU ARE ABLE to let them be and ALLOW their own evolutionary growth to yield.
The world is NATURALLY designed to compel support and unconditional love to you and your well-being.
Nowhere in the natural world will you find it trying to control or manipulate certain results.
Loosen the grip of importance you project on your children being a certain way and watch how they are able to resolve their issues and their challenges with greater ease without your own frames of projected ideals upon them.
The world works out for you, if you, yourself allow it to.
Being able to allow your children the gift of the truth is a thrive vibe for their development and overall humanity.
All of these tips and investments come down to the common denominator of yielding out of dependency of you needing your child to be a certain way so that you can feel whole and balanced within yourself.
Taking complete sovereign command and mastery over your own LIFEFORCE is a thrive and how you behave and the actions you compel in your own behaviour is much more influential teaching than the ideals of words you tell your child. Actions and words and emotion all need to be in harmony for there to be peace.
Saying one thing and doing another creates an in congruence of which does an entire disservice to the dignity of your child’s well-being.
The next and final tip distilled in this post is one of the most ADVANTAGEOUS in my humble opinion:
Find moments to be silly and engage the THRIVE OF LAUGHTER.
A sense of humour and laughter is A FORCE.
Find things to amuse yourself and your children.
Silliness is an engagement that is highly underrated and underused in relational dynamics and when purposefully implemented can be the catalyst to great connectivity and expression of the NATURAL FORCE LAW OF LOVE.
We are made to smile, laugh and be silly. Did you know?
Is there anything more contagiously good than the sound of a child’s laughter?
It is a natural thrive to be in JOY and AMUSEMENT.
To do so naturally and creatively without any diminishment or shade upon another is a very momentous and celebratory encompassment of the SPIRIT.
Life is Fun.
Make it So!
Take heart, you are human.